I have a dilemma, y'see. I'm not an NeFi... but I am trying to write a new, 'real' and honest NeFi profile and feel there's a lot more to note. So far I've written: cognitivetype.com/nefi-profile/
But it's really up to you quirky lovable bunch to to describe what the experience of this type feels like. I'm likely missing a lot of facets (such as more melancholy aspects, approaches to challenges, careers, love/romance, etc) ^^
As I am not an NeFi I can't really lead this effort, but if you guys wanna create this profile, I'd be happy to publish it to the website. NO PRESSURE
This guy (he reminds me of you, Rualani) who I think may be NeFi w/ strong Te, talks about an interesting ENFP guide book that I've never read before. But the way he describes it is interesting.
An interesting call to action. I think the best way to start would be to get the NeFi's talking to each other to find the traits which appear most broadly. I think the best way to begin the collaboration would be to choose a topic then dive into depth with it, preferably through voice. I, usually, use Skype, but considering the depth of the topic I'm open to other more secure options.
rualani: I was actually just about to suggest an NeFi Skype session as I read through your post. XD Seconded (though, of course, I'll not be participating).