The obscure side of Fe (debate about Fi/Fe bitterness)
May 29, 2013 17:46:08 GMT -5 by Heron
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Post by Heron on May 29, 2013 17:46:08 GMT -5
Me and my secret twin, Steve Jobs:
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I know what you're thinking: no, i'm not getting mad. Steve jobs and I are just the starters for this discussion about a more bitter side of Fe, and the idea for the imagine is popped in my head a moment before making this post, and i thought it was funny .
I know this post will be a little confusonary, where i live is really late, and i have some difficulties to explain what exactly i'm trying to say with this post, in part because i'm thinking about it while i'm writing.
Seems that he was a NiFe, so his Fe was pretty high, the reason why i chose him is because of his character: he was a douchebag, really far away from the NiFe stereotype that you can read on the internet.
Everyone who had a personal contact with him described his personality with cold, absent, standoffish, lacking of control, furious, asocial... the list is approximately endless. But... some videos can show a more warmer character, like this:
He was the first one who attempted a physical contact.
I am a TiNe, and i feel to relate with him for some good sides, and even the bad ones (no, i am the natural children of my parents).
Like i wrote on my post in the "Ti/Fi sanctum", i never had a friend before reaching the 14 age, the other childrens threated me in a bad way, and i never understanded why. Maybe because i was a looner since the early ages, because i never knew how to socialize with the other childrens, maybe i was simply different, or i had some bad things in my character that no one have never tried to explain to me... i don't know, but this made me angry and disillusioned about the world around me. In the middle-school period i started to reject the other childrens, even if they tried to make friendship with me, i was also bullied by some boys older than me, i started to get more closed with the other people.
Don't worry: now i'm different, more mature, and disillusioned in a positive way, but is remained a sense of "..." (lol, i don't find the word... in italian i can say "rivalsa" and that word has a different meaning... the english word that is more close in the meaning is "return game") and this is the core of the thread.
What do you think about it, Fis and Fes?
(i think i'll go more deep in the argument, sooner or later)
I know this post will be a little confusonary, where i live is really late, and i have some difficulties to explain what exactly i'm trying to say with this post, in part because i'm thinking about it while i'm writing.
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Steve jobs is considered one of the greatest man of the last century, an inspirator, an innovator of everyone's life, but to understand his personality we have to go really deep.Seems that he was a NiFe, so his Fe was pretty high, the reason why i chose him is because of his character: he was a douchebag, really far away from the NiFe stereotype that you can read on the internet.
Everyone who had a personal contact with him described his personality with cold, absent, standoffish, lacking of control, furious, asocial... the list is approximately endless. But... some videos can show a more warmer character, like this:
He was the first one who attempted a physical contact.
There's a strange nature in his feelings that i can't explain, but i think to understand it, now i want to concentrate the post with his early ages and not the success days.
I think his character was tempred with an invasive rage, that made him disappointed of the world around him, he was adopted, so this can make problems in a children's mind, i think the first thing that comes in mind of an adopted children is: "why did they neglected me?". From what i read he has a looner when he was a teenager, he had only a few friends (one of those was wozniack, the cofounder of apple) and he was considered arrogant by his peers. When he growed up, and worked in atari for a while, he had a bad reputation with the colleagues, again because he was arrogant and, apparently, he stank.
I think his character was tempred with an invasive rage, that made him disappointed of the world around him, he was adopted, so this can make problems in a children's mind, i think the first thing that comes in mind of an adopted children is: "why did they neglected me?". From what i read he has a looner when he was a teenager, he had only a few friends (one of those was wozniack, the cofounder of apple) and he was considered arrogant by his peers. When he growed up, and worked in atari for a while, he had a bad reputation with the colleagues, again because he was arrogant and, apparently, he stank.
I am a TiNe, and i feel to relate with him for some good sides, and even the bad ones (no, i am the natural children of my parents).
Like i wrote on my post in the "Ti/Fi sanctum", i never had a friend before reaching the 14 age, the other childrens threated me in a bad way, and i never understanded why. Maybe because i was a looner since the early ages, because i never knew how to socialize with the other childrens, maybe i was simply different, or i had some bad things in my character that no one have never tried to explain to me... i don't know, but this made me angry and disillusioned about the world around me. In the middle-school period i started to reject the other childrens, even if they tried to make friendship with me, i was also bullied by some boys older than me, i started to get more closed with the other people.
Don't worry: now i'm different, more mature, and disillusioned in a positive way, but is remained a sense of "..." (lol, i don't find the word... in italian i can say "rivalsa" and that word has a different meaning... the english word that is more close in the meaning is "return game") and this is the core of the thread.
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An unhealthy Fe user in my opinion can have the intention to "overcome" people, a sense of revenge, while a Fi user can have simply a bitter vision of the world without try to be over the society, if he isn't selfish and that is another case. I think a Fi us. in some ways is more quiet with the other people, even if he has a sense of rage against the society, a Fe user can get furious and eager to destroy everything because "no one accepted him and everyone has to pay for it", so the Fe is always linked with the other people, even in the rage.What do you think about it, Fis and Fes?
(i think i'll go more deep in the argument, sooner or later)