Post by ayoungspirit on Aug 11, 2013 12:46:37 GMT -5
I had the occasion to discuss with a SeFi and it allowed me to put our similarities and differences in context, as we both make persistent eye contact but starting from very different postures. On one hand, she seems to crave it, and almost jump on people firsthand with naive brows up and bright eyes, and she will not break it as long as the conversation is going, as if she were fascinated with the person. On the other, I am not proactively searching eye contact, I will mostly ignore the person visually, looking hazily around, or casually in my thoughts, until he or she captures my interest. At this moment, I will make eye contact with an intense look and sometimes a sharp scowl and will maintain it until the other person caves in. Like I have said in the scowl topic, I really don't do ever the lemur face, even when legitimately surprised, and people have therefore reported that I always look either bored or serious. They got worried when I peel my eyelids to make fun of something
Interesting, ayoungspirit. Do you believe this is related to the fact of her being SeFi? I've met many Se-leads and SeFis who dooon't crave for eye-contact, nor are passionate about humans. It seems to me that these things have nothing to do with ct. What's your take on this?
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