NeFi, FiNe, NeTi or something completey else?

Amsterdam, that's a good idea. I'm planning on doing an interview or conversational video with a close friend, I'll try to have it up during next week.

So, I've been studying the functions a bit more and watching TiSe, SeTi and Fe videos. I feel quite confident, let's say 80% sure, of being Ti-Fe. However Se-Ni gives me a headache.

But starting with Ti: apart from agreeing with the psychology of Ti, I see I do the Ji momentum halting, eyes disengaging down and I believe I have quite a rigid posture. And I know I have Ti soft wrists all the time (not sure if it's in the video I posted though)! Also face neutralization, don't know if it's related but I've heard several times that I look a bit intimidating or judging when I thought I had a blank face. Is Ti known for a 'resting bitch face'? Or is that perhaps the Fe 'upset face'? Anyway I think I look like that when I'm just feeling neutral.

Speaking of Fe, it is what I am surest of, both signal wise and via the psychologic description. I do placid Fe-smiles often when greeting people and being polite in conversations. The wider Fe-smile is probably used when I'm more engaged and enthusiastic about a topic, for instance when I teach. I think I do a lot of 'persuading' Fe-swelling like head nods, shoulder shrugs, brow raises, voice emphasise as well while teaching, or giving a speech. I believe it is an instinctive habit that's got accentuated after practicing improvisational theatre in high school and getting comfortable on a stage.

I really relate to having a adaptive Fe, using Fe-disclaimers and always being aware and promoting harmony in groups. If I ever manipulate through Fe it is done half or totally unconsciously since it goes against my morals (that's a reason I thought I was Fi).

As for Se-Ni versus Ne-Si... I haven't trained enough to tell apart Si and Ni signs, like the zoning out and scowling, neither the Se vs Ne and their eye toggling. And I can't get my head around the psychology of Ni. When I read the descriptions of Ni-usage I can't relate at all, except for the aha-moments which I get raaaarely when in a very, very relaxed state. Se I can understand, but I would be surprised if it was actually a strong function of mine. As I've understood, a Se-person is easily present in the here-and-now and enjoys sports and so on. I've always been more of a indoors philosopher than an out-and-about, sportsy person. I've had to learn to appreciate physical activity and I still have to persuade myself, "c'mon now, you know you'll feel better afterwards". I've only ever been hyped about dancing and surfing, since they occasionally offer a transcendental experience.

I read somewhere on the webpage that Se get most energized by real life stimuli whereas Ne prefers "unbridled speculation". That is one of many descriptions where Ne rings my bell.  But I know I'm biased after testing ENFP many times and identifying with the Ne-world. It could be that I'm really home with (and use, I believe, but I could be mistaken) Ne humor and idea hopping through Ne-heavy parents/friends.

Also, I read and relate much more to TiNe Amsterdam's answers in the NiTi-corridor thread than the TiSe and NiFe answers, if that's any worth.

Anyway I'm confident now I'm at least not a primarily Ne-user. It's just very hard to get used to the idea of Ni until I understand it better.

(One last thing, does anyone have an example of a Fe-heavy TiSe, preferably female? Maybe one reason I doubt TiSe is that the celebs I've see are so serious, Christian Bale and Tony Hawk to name two. Few warm smiles, jokes or silliness. Do anyone have a good example of a more visibly lighthearted or goofy TiSe?)