I have noticed that Fi and Ti people are pretty particular about their word choice and conveying exactly what they want, especially Ti people.
There was this research of stuttering, and they found that many people who stutter judge speakers more harshly. In other words, stutterers are anal retentive. I think that may be true for some, but I bet it's more likely that they have simply become hypersensitive to noticing dysfluencies. The brief article is here:
As a Fi dom, can confirm. I think that particularity about word choice shows up more as stuttering in FiNe (especially FiNe-Te), as they can tend to want to correct themselves or self-analyze mid-word, while Ti doms seem to hesitate *before* articulating the next word, stopping mid-sentence but generally not *while* they're pronouncing a word, or at least not as much as FiNe do.
On the other hand, FiNe-I seem to have more of a calm flow as they speak as compared to FiNe-Te, who seem to become quite jittery, bouncy; almost like they're jumping out of themselves to extrovert (I call it flurrying lol). Internally, it can feel like one can never be fast enough in this extroverted world X-( so there's a rush, a desperate feeling that there isn't enough time to convey one's thoughts, and that the mind is too fast for the tongue to keep up.
PiTe sometimes seem to have a slightly similar bounciness, as Te is coming out of an introverted process, but since Pi has that inertial quality it isn't pronounced, I think.
You can kind of see that process here with FiNe-Te Susan Cain, especially at 5:20-5:24
Fortunately, after watching videos of so many calm Pi leads while learning about typing here, I've realized it's possible to speak without rushing AND also have people stick around long enough to hear your thoughts
Last Edit: Jul 21, 2017 2:22:10 GMT -5 by bugslife
I have word retrieval issues, and so I always rush my stories, feeling much like you said at the end. I am drawn to good story tellers (who isn't?) in a serious way, so I always have to remind myself that if I just developed that more, I may not feel rushed. I can speak in public okay... But telling a story in a group is hard sometimes.
I am pretty sure my husband is high Fi, and he can be soooo exacting. I actually think my MIL and husnad may be double introverted.