A video of my boyfriend!

Okay, this is the first time I've tried this, so please keep that in mind. I turned off the sound and just watched.

To me he appears NeFi - His eyes appear Ne, they are soft in my opinion, and they look down quite a lot, not up (Ne/Si). He also has an Si scowl with his eyebrows going up at the tips where his brows would meet (hope that makes sense), he squints at times too. He seems to be a Pe lead.. he moves a lot.. but doesn't sway in the Se way.. he touches his face, his hair, he seems antsy, he moves back in his chair in an almost "dismissive" way (Te?), he does have moments of Fi sassyness. His gestures are more Te than Fe, they're not inclusive (Fe join me) they're more Te/Fi in my opinion. I hate the term 'dismissive' but since that is term that is used I'll keep it consistent for communications sake. And again, please keep in mind this is the first time I've attempted this on someone else, thanks.

*sneaks into thread as if she's late to a party* >.>

So umm.. I see something going on here that I do a lot of myself. I'll come to a conclusion about someone's type, and then analyze them again and again until I'm convinced I was wrong

I think you guys were right with your first guesses, he seems like a very clear example of a NeFi.

*Pe momentum
*Pe-lead eye-centric
*Pe-lead fluid posture
*Ne loose eye toggling/soft brushing
*Si Scowling
*Fi upward/snarling smile
*Fi/Te dismissive shoulder-shrugs
*Te eyebrow raises
*Te monotone/quick speech

I may be confused, but this doesn't look Fi? That is one awkward smile for Fe if it is. (No offense to him).

Hi Alerith, thank you for sharing your conclusions, I'm happy that they join mines on his quadra! As I said, based on the MBTI I typed him an INFP, but I understand if it translates into NeFi on a CT basis and I won't be contesting that


When I watched the video, I thought his smile could be confused with a Fe smile, because of the light and quality of the footage. But when I have him in front of me, he clearly has a vertical, joker smile (yeah, a very awkward Fe smile, as you said! )

He doesn't want to make a second video and I have to admit it would be completely counterproductive. None of us two would be spontaneous and natural if we were to create the occasion to strike up conversation in front of a webcam, just "out of the blue". It would be artificial and not more reliable than the first video. I still can try to find pictures where he's smiling, though.

Here are some pics! I tried to find some where he has less beard, because I think it can be deceptive too.