Type my husband

Oh man, of course. Thanks for bringing that up!  That would make sense, as he really reminds me of Stewart Copeland (even same profession). They look the same while playing. And there was a conclusion for SC to be SeTi. cognitivetype.boards.net/thread/358/stewart-copeland

To think of it more, my DH really seems to have that slow Ti speech style. He makes momentum haltings and is rather careful in his word choices. But I'm sure his primary oscillation is heavy in SeNi. Fe doesn't show much, except that he's the last person in the world to make anyone angry = no provoking. (Except me.)

And of course he reminds EJArendee, especially the clothing choices, lol.

The video is bad in lighting and sound (it was night here), but I doubt I will get him to remake it...

Thanks, sltp! I can't believe I was so blind to not see this myself. Now that I look at SeTi's, it's obvious that's his type! He's just a very introverted one, meaning loads of Ni and Ti. He usually doesn't smile that much, it was because I was nervous and bursting into laughter all the time.

The angle of the shooting is not the best one, but it was the only one I could get. I think he sometimes zones out while looking at you in the eyes ("empty stare" plus eye lock), but he also does side and downward zone-outs. His eyes have a perma-bored look, like EJArendee. I thought he has a NiTe deadpan face, but it is more likely Ti flat cheeks. His mouth area also looks a lot like EJArendee, and I actually thought EJ (and Stewart Copeland as well) uses Fi because of his occasional asymmetric mouth movements. Interesting that several SeTi's have that kind of asymmetrical expression.

In Personality Junkie page my H got ISTP as a test result and felt it captured his personality pretty well. So at least the functions were right. I tried to convince him he's an INTJ, lol.

His smile has been tricky to analyze, but it was one reason why I started to doubt my initial NiTe hypothesis. It is not a snarl, although it's not extremely wide either. It looks a lot like SC's:

well, to me it still appears like Ti/Fe

his face is SOOOO blank, and then he smiles, and then it's blank again. i only see cheek tension when he's smiling.

i'm still not clear on his dominant, since he stays so still and yet doesn't seem rigid, but i would stick with SeTi or TiSe

Yeah, it's amazing how blank and still he naturally is! A total opposite to myself. He leads with his eyes (they look separate from the rest of the face), which makes it more likely that he's a P-lead. His slow, viscous movements makes me think of Ni-lead rather than Se, but he's not NiFe, because I'm quite certain his T>F. Ni, Se and Ti (or with a minor chance Te) are his major functions, with Ni showing up most.

ayoungspirit: lol, during the last 10 years he's learned it's easier to give in to my obsessions, so he can move on to his own faster.

lol, is Dolph TeNi?