Gamma Energy & Sexual Distance - A conversation
Jul 20, 2017 1:34:55 GMT -5 by Auburn
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Post by Auburn on Jul 20, 2017 1:34:55 GMT -5
So champagne_dad (who is SeFi-Fi, veering toward unseelie) and I had a conversation recently touching on why Gammas often have the iconic aloof energy they do. This is how it went:
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:24 PM
see i find that really mean/offensive. playing with ppl's emotions and expectations. even jovially
but i think its precisely for that reason that Se enjoys it. to fuck around with ppl ):
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:25 PM
i actually used to fuck around with ppl like this
especially in highschool
and still riff with some friends these days
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:30 PM
like, how is it when ur not going easy on them?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:30 PM
ahaha
i pretty much go all out
i sometimes enjoy pushing ppls buttons ngl
especially when i think they can take it
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:32 PM
see this is fascinating to me.
what's the feeling of leading someone on, and then dropping them.
its kindof a power dynamic thing. does it make u feel a little in control?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:33 PM
oh i thought u were talking fucking with ppl
nah i dont actually flirt much
but when i do its more.. uh sexually playful, like leading them on ya
if i dont like u then ill make it super obvious
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:34 PM
haha, the whole gamma cold shoulder
that makes sense
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:35 PM
ya i dont like wasting time on ppl i dont like
and give them wrong ideas
especially if theyre creeps
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:36 PM
but do u decide so quickly u dont like ppl, and proceed to act like u dont like them?
dont u figure out if u like them or not via being open to what they have to say/be/express?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:37 PM
like i said especially if theyre total creeps then ya like fuck off lol
but even if theyre not creepy but theyre not my type then ill be less harsh
but still make it clear im not into them
ive had to do it with a couple of my friends
it gets akward but ultimately it has to be done
kill em with mercy, so to speak
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:39 PM
interesting.
i wonder what the need to 'signal' that so obviously comes from. is there an innate awareness you feel of the sexual tensions of people around you?
why is it so important to let them know?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:40 PM
its mostly sexual tension i dont wanna deal with
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:40 PM
right. so to protect yourself from sexual predation
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:40 PM
ya
i want sexual communication to be equal
so if i dont like u but u like me its not gonna happen
simple as that
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:41 PM
yknow... come to think of it, i find Fi+Ne the opposite. in that they almost give off the vibe of being open to everyone
like NeFi especially
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:42 PM
ya they seem like the type that every one can relate to
and talk to
bc theyre so open and losen their boundaries
weather they realize it or not, i imagine
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:42 PM
ya
fascinating
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:43 PM
i mean im open too, but it really depends on weather im vibing with u
or u give out weird vibes
i noticed in my other se fi friend that if she doesnt like someone she really does not like them and wont talk to them as much(edited)
while talking smack abt them behind their back lol
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:48 PM
oh shit
man, thats what creates the gamma bitch stereotype
but right. the tendency to be choosy and guarded is because of that linearity. not wanting to waste time or pursue endless paths
se/ni is more selective, by extension, of their sexual and emotional energy. because they're more linear and less plural
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:49 PM
omg that totally makes sense!
like whats the point of expending my sexual energy if i dont like u
its as simple as that
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:50 PM
haha yea
and also, self-containment radiates confidence
and confidence is alluring
so gammas appear alluring because they make themselves unavailable
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:51 PM
i physically cant get turned on if i dont like someone either so theres litteraly no point
lol
but even ppl in general like if u give out sus vibes im not gonna be as open with u
or if i find u boring
communicating with ppl for me is pretty much feeling them out
weed out the bad feels and spend time on the good ones
see i find that really mean/offensive. playing with ppl's emotions and expectations. even jovially
but i think its precisely for that reason that Se enjoys it. to fuck around with ppl ):
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:25 PM
i actually used to fuck around with ppl like this
especially in highschool
and still riff with some friends these days
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:30 PM
like, how is it when ur not going easy on them?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:30 PM
ahaha
i pretty much go all out
i sometimes enjoy pushing ppls buttons ngl
especially when i think they can take it
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:32 PM
see this is fascinating to me.
what's the feeling of leading someone on, and then dropping them.
its kindof a power dynamic thing. does it make u feel a little in control?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:33 PM
oh i thought u were talking fucking with ppl
nah i dont actually flirt much
but when i do its more.. uh sexually playful, like leading them on ya
if i dont like u then ill make it super obvious
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:34 PM
haha, the whole gamma cold shoulder
that makes sense
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:35 PM
ya i dont like wasting time on ppl i dont like
and give them wrong ideas
especially if theyre creeps
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:36 PM
but do u decide so quickly u dont like ppl, and proceed to act like u dont like them?
dont u figure out if u like them or not via being open to what they have to say/be/express?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:37 PM
like i said especially if theyre total creeps then ya like fuck off lol
but even if theyre not creepy but theyre not my type then ill be less harsh
but still make it clear im not into them
ive had to do it with a couple of my friends
it gets akward but ultimately it has to be done
kill em with mercy, so to speak
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:39 PM
interesting.
i wonder what the need to 'signal' that so obviously comes from. is there an innate awareness you feel of the sexual tensions of people around you?
why is it so important to let them know?
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:40 PM
its mostly sexual tension i dont wanna deal with
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:40 PM
right. so to protect yourself from sexual predation
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:40 PM
ya
i want sexual communication to be equal
so if i dont like u but u like me its not gonna happen
simple as that
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:41 PM
yknow... come to think of it, i find Fi+Ne the opposite. in that they almost give off the vibe of being open to everyone
like NeFi especially
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:42 PM
ya they seem like the type that every one can relate to
and talk to
bc theyre so open and losen their boundaries
weather they realize it or not, i imagine
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:42 PM
ya
fascinating
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:43 PM
i mean im open too, but it really depends on weather im vibing with u
or u give out weird vibes
i noticed in my other se fi friend that if she doesnt like someone she really does not like them and wont talk to them as much(edited)
while talking smack abt them behind their back lol
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:48 PM
oh shit
man, thats what creates the gamma bitch stereotype
but right. the tendency to be choosy and guarded is because of that linearity. not wanting to waste time or pursue endless paths
se/ni is more selective, by extension, of their sexual and emotional energy. because they're more linear and less plural
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:49 PM
omg that totally makes sense!
like whats the point of expending my sexual energy if i dont like u
its as simple as that
Auburn (TiNe) - Today at 10:50 PM
haha yea
and also, self-containment radiates confidence
and confidence is alluring
so gammas appear alluring because they make themselves unavailable
celine (SeFi) - Today at 10:51 PM
i physically cant get turned on if i dont like someone either so theres litteraly no point
lol
but even ppl in general like if u give out sus vibes im not gonna be as open with u
or if i find u boring
communicating with ppl for me is pretty much feeling them out
weed out the bad feels and spend time on the good ones
